Decision-making can be difficult for anyone and teens with autism are no exception. Along with the usual worries, like making the wrong choice, teens with autism experience challenges that are unique to them. 

The ability to make independent decisions is an important life skill but can be overwhelming for those on the autism spectrum. This can be because of difficulties with processing information, sensory sensitivities, and anxiety. In this blog we will explore common decision-making challenges and offer practical strategies for teens and their loved ones to help them make choices with confidence.

Understanding Decision-Making Challenges

Teens with autism often struggle with decision-making because of the way they process information. Many can experience difficulties with executive functioning, which includes planning, organizing, and prioritizing tasks. 

This can make seemingly simple decisions, such as what to eat for lunch or which activity to participate in, overwhelming. Sensory sensitivities and anxiety can further complicate the decision-making process, leading to stress or even decision paralysis.

The Impact of Being Overwhelmed

When faced with multiple choices or complex decisions, teens with autism may become easily overwhelmed. This feeling of being overwhelmed can lead to avoidance behaviors, where they try to rely heavily on parents or caregivers to make decisions for them. While this may provide immediate relief, it hinders their ability to develop independence. 

It's important for parents to recognize when their child is overwhelmed and to offer support that encourages, rather than inhibits, independent decision-making.

Strategies for Supporting Decision-Making

1. Simplify Choices: One way to support decision-making is by simplifying your teen’s choices. Rather than presenting your teen with a wide variety of options, limit the choices to two or three. This can reduce their feeling of being overwhelmed and make the decision-making process more manageable.
   For example, instead of asking, "What would you like to do this weekend?" offer a choice between two specific activities, “Would you like to go for a bike ride or to the park this weekend?”

2. Use Visual Aids: Visual supports, such as charts, pictures, or written lists, are extremely helpful. They provide a clear and structured way to present options, making it easier for your teen to understand and evaluate their choices. Visual schedules or decision-making flowcharts can also guide them through the process step-by-step.

3. Encourage Predictability: Many teens with autism thrive on routine and predictability, so incorporate consistent decision-making opportunities. For example, having a set time each day for making decisions, such as planning meals or activities, can create a sense of stability. Combine this with visual aids such as chore charts to help your teen thrive in their decision-making.

4. Teach Problem-Solving Skills: Developing problem-solving skills is key to improving decision-making abilities. Parents can help their teens by teaching them how to break down decisions into smaller, more manageable steps. This might involve identifying the problem, considering possible solutions, evaluating the pros and cons of each option, and then making a choice.

5. Model Decision-Making: Parents can also model good decision-making behaviors by thinking aloud as they make decisions. This helps teens understand the thought process behind choosing between different options. By observing their parents or caregivers navigate decision-making, teens can learn valuable strategies that they can apply to their own choices​.

Promoting Independence While Offering Support

While it's important to encourage independence, it's equally important to provide the right level of support. Gradually increasing the complexity of decisions as your teen becomes more confident can help them build their decision-making skills over time. Be patient and offer praise for their efforts, even if the decisions they make are not always perfect. The goal is to build their confidence and help them feel more capable of making choices on their own​.

Encouraging Real-Life Practice

One of the best ways to strengthen decision-making skills is through real-life practice. Encourage your teen to make decisions in different situations, from choosing what to wear to deciding how to spend their free time. Provide opportunities for them to make mistakes and learn from them in a supportive environment. The more they practice, the more comfortable and independent they will become​.

Building Independence at PS Academy Arizona

Helping teens with autism develop strong decision-making skills is essential for fostering their independence and preparing them for adulthood. At PS Academy Arizona, we understand the unique challenges that come with autism and are committed to providing a supportive environment where students can learn, grow, and thrive. 

Our programs are designed to teach essential life skills, including decision-making, in a way that celebrates each student's individuality. We invite you to visit our website, schedule a tour, and learn more about how PS Academy Arizona can help your teen build the confidence and skills they need for a successful future.