Is Your Teen With Autism Struggling in Silence at School? Here's What You Need to Know

For parents of teens with autism, the journey is often filled with ups and downs. As a parent of a teen with autism, you are aware of the unique challenges - from delayed diagnoses, to finding your teen’s preferred communication methods, the milestones you reach on the journey of autism are unlike anything neurotypicals have to take on.

School is no exception. Finding the right school for your teen is one of the most important decisions you will make in their childhood; one that will shape them for the rest of their lives. 

If your teen has been attending public school, but you suspect that their specific needs are not being met, you're not alone. Many parents in similar situations find themselves wondering if their student is in the right place, even if there are obvious signs that they are not. Many hope that their teen’s struggles are merely a phase that will pass.

4 Signs Your Teen with Autism is Flying Under the Radar 

It's essential to acknowledge the signs and potential red flags that your teen may be silently suffering in a school environment that doesn't fully understand or cater to their needs. 

Here's what you should know.

1. Your Student with Autism Might Be Concealing Their Struggles

Teens with autism are incredibly resilient and may hide their difficulties at school. They might not express their frustrations openly, leading you to believe that everything is okay. Instead, they might avoid school altogether, frequently complain of feeling unwell, or exhibit anxiety symptoms.

2. They Are Experiencing Academic Plateaus

If your teen’s progress in school has plateaued or they seem disinterested in learning, it could be a sign that their educational needs are not being met. Teens with autism thrive when their education is tailored to their unique learning style.

3. You’re Noticing Behavioral Changes

In a school environment that doesn't provide adequate support or understanding, teens with autism may exhibit changes in behavior. These changes can manifest as increased anxiety, meltdowns, or withdrawal from social situations.

4. Their Emotional Well-being Seems to be Declining

Pay close attention to your teen’s emotional state. Consistent unhappiness, anxiety, or chronic stress about school can significantly impact their overall well-being. Emotional struggles might manifest as changes in sleep patterns, withdrawal from activities they once enjoyed, or expressing feelings of sadness or frustration.

5. The Bottom Line? Trust Your Instincts

Do you have a gut feeling that something isn't quite right? Our best advice is to trust your instincts. It might be tempting to dismiss your concerns or attribute them to typical childhood behavior. However, if these patterns are tending to repeat themselves, it might be a good idea to reevaluate your student’s school.

Seeking the Right Support

If you suspect that your teen’s needs are not being met in their current school environment, it's crucial to explore alternatives that cater specifically to teens with autism. 

At PS Academy Arizona, we focus on helping your student uncover their full potential by focusing on their strengths rather than labeling them based on their diagnosis. 

Our school provides a supportive and inclusive environment where every teen, regardless of where they fall on the spectrum, can receive an education that caters to their strengths. 

Our students are grouped by ability and not age, and have the opportunity to explore their interests and uncover strengths by participating in many clubs, electives, and activities including baking, robotics, student council, joining the basketball team, and many more. 

Learn more about our programs or schedule a tour with one of our enrollment specialists today. 


Kami Cothrun

Kami Cothrun is the founder and CEO of PS Academy Arizona.

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